tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post6713952125455972169..comments2022-11-02T06:45:13.586-05:00Comments on AFalomo's Den: Virginity is soooooooo over-rated! PART 1AFalomohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10732499248969630163noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-44479586257730966812011-09-06T11:14:19.331-05:002011-09-06T11:14:19.331-05:00Hmm, deep deep, deep one here.
Sad to say, standar...Hmm, deep deep, deep one here.<br />Sad to say, standards are not what it used to be, even in the church.<br /><br />www.royremi.blogspot.comRoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07674518887428598483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-60899023717031727102011-09-01T09:45:36.276-05:002011-09-01T09:45:36.276-05:00ok then.. waiting for part 2. thanks for stopping ...ok then.. waiting for part 2. thanks for stopping by my blog. will love to see ur comments there :)<br /><br />ta!alotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-64406267132715779922011-09-01T01:46:54.131-05:002011-09-01T01:46:54.131-05:00:DD *waiting* tnx bros.:DD *waiting* tnx bros.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-21191747747782260002011-08-31T16:27:51.824-05:002011-08-31T16:27:51.824-05:00@ Ibhade, warn yourself oh, lol. You're talkin...@ Ibhade, warn yourself oh, lol. You're talking about what I wanted to talk about in PART 2 already! Remember I talked about the level of hypocrisy this creates? Yeah, that's what I wanted to talk about...Now thanks to you, you already did :/ I'm really really glad I'm not the only one who knows about this still. :D<br /><br />This comment you made: "I would respect a woman who kept herself from every form of sexual act because she loves GOD and wants to keep the temple holy and not because of vain glory, so that people can say :YES, SHE MARRIED AS VIRGIN" summarizes the whole intention of this article, and what I had at the back of my mind when I was writing the appreciation part.<br /><br />This is what I wrote on Facebook a couple hours ago: "Is anyone a Virgin (guys too) because it's their choice, and fully responsible for it; or because they feel it's an obligation, like they have to? The 2nd category of people deserve no respect whatsover. Grow up!"<br /><br />Man, it's like we share the same line of thought honestly! So, I'm not alone, hehehehe.<br /><br />Anyways, you're right, that is where the hypocrisy sets in, which is why I'm tackling it in the next part, alongside to paint a better and fuller picture as to what I meant about me not tapping my wife on the shoulder for doing a "good job".<br /><br />Thanks for the inspirations, yourself and @ilola, honestly! Finally been able to talk about this, watch out for Part 2 though :)AFalomohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10732499248969630163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-69053161398294931262011-08-31T16:18:36.404-05:002011-08-31T16:18:36.404-05:00Lol @T.Notes, please be free to state your own obs...Lol @T.Notes, please be free to state your own observations. This is very interesting topic. You can write a blog about your personal impressions, so we can keep the conversation going...Please do! Thanks for reading.AFalomohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10732499248969630163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-34127718892546629452011-08-31T16:16:47.332-05:002011-08-31T16:16:47.332-05:00@aloted, lol. The same sentiments has sorta been e...@aloted, lol. The same sentiments has sorta been echoed by the ladies. It's not easy, but the reward of maturity/responsibility, being able to make a decision not because you feel you have to is reward enough I think. But the God who you serve, and honor with your body will definitely reward you! He can't fail in that. The crux is that he doesn't just honor behaviors/actions though, he rewards the motives behind them. (which is really what I was alluding to on the appreciation part) God help us all indeed! And I'm glad you enjoyed it still.<br /><br />And on a side-note, I checked out your blog. Very interesting your recent posts are very similar to this topic of discussion. About to follow your blog :)AFalomohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10732499248969630163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-49165189484463252312011-08-31T16:11:35.317-05:002011-08-31T16:11:35.317-05:00I hope he does appreciate you for it, honestly! an...I hope he does appreciate you for it, honestly! and I'm sure he will... Any sensible guy would, it's not easy! Just don't base your choice to remain a Virgin on that! That's the whole thing I was against! <br /><br />I'm Mscheww-ing with you seriously, lol. It's very skewed and unbalanced. We guys are a selfish bunch, we need to suffer some consequences for our actions too sometimes. Thanks for stopping by.AFalomohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10732499248969630163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-72413010567678711272011-08-31T16:08:17.912-05:002011-08-31T16:08:17.912-05:00Thanks @ilola, I really appreciate you stopping by...Thanks @ilola, I really appreciate you stopping by. The problem for me is the word "expect", but I kinda do agree with you that it's not easy, especially in the present society we are, and I think I was maybe a little bit insensitive to the fact that fact. This is a satire, so points are bound to be made in a very extreme manner. I meant responsibility in the sense that one is "able to take rational decisions without supervision; accountable for one's own actions", out of choice, rather than just because (or obligation, like a "I have to" sort of mentality) That's what I meant, and I'm sure you would agree with that. I'll discuss more on that in part two (still gathering materials together). Continue the conversation on your blog please :) Thanks for reading.AFalomohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10732499248969630163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-24895721256000475992011-08-31T15:02:47.498-05:002011-08-31T15:02:47.498-05:00Read all the comments and laughed at Ope's..ab...Read all the comments and laughed at Ope's..abi oo!..dogs wanting to marry virgins!..i join you hiss o jare!. My respects @ILOLA & ALOTED, :D<br /><br />P.s...a thought-provoking post, welldone sir.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-72734589444417860352011-08-31T14:56:47.484-05:002011-08-31T14:56:47.484-05:00Wow! thanks very much for the mention brother....a...Wow! thanks very much for the mention brother....am humbled and glad to find someone reason the same line....i had always wondered why the pressure is more on the women than the men???...well, i read an article months back how the Chinese had created an artificial hymen in form of a capsule which would be inserted in the vagina, so when it dissolves,it would form a membrane around the vagina....yes! there would be little blood stains when the gal is been dis-flowered...i laughed so hard, & said that serve men right! Because they judge a woman's worth based on an un-broken hymen!<br /><br />I would respect a woman who kept herself from every form of sexual act because she loves GOD and wants to keep the temple holy and not because of vain glory, so that people can say :YES, SHE MARRIED AS VIRGIN... not after many rounds of masturbation o! which itself is a sin!..that is the hypocrisy i believe people are talking about..by the way, IS FORNICATION THE ONLY SIN IN THE BIBLE?...SIN IS SIN....i was amused when a pastor went about a couple that wanted to get married, that the guy said she was still a virgin..people that were in the 'know' simply grinned..yes, a virgin, but they 'made out' as if there was no tomorrow!....our righteousness is a filthy rag before GOD...BOTH MALE & FEMALES SHOULD KEEP THEMSELVES ...NOT ONLY THE FEMALE..my tuppence..thanks again :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-75748538329290146532011-08-31T11:13:17.698-05:002011-08-31T11:13:17.698-05:00Oh wow wow wow...deeply and properly well said. I ...Oh wow wow wow...deeply and properly well said. I want to make comments and personal impressions on so many grounds,dunno where to start!T.Noteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15615737640818854979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-68577399150109157392011-08-31T10:33:01.581-05:002011-08-31T10:33:01.581-05:00first time here...
i was enjoying the article til...first time here...<br /><br />i was enjoying the article till the part you said a woman should not expect appreciation for keeping herself pure or being a virgin till she got married...it is not moimoi, neither is it yam to remain pure till marriage. <br /><br />Personally, I did it first for God, then myself, then my hubby and then so I can be a testimony to my daughter(s).<br /><br />God help us all.<br /><br />Good read all the same.alotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-73722477285913344482011-08-31T09:07:43.841-05:002011-08-31T09:07:43.841-05:00Woww this is really deep!
I will say that remaini...Woww this is really deep! <br />I will say that remaining a virginity until my wedding night is a great commitment and would want my husband to appreciate that fact because it is not easy remaining a virgin. (my opinion). <br /><br />lol@And please guys, let's all do ourselves a favor! Stop fantasizing about getting the chance to deflower a girl on your wedding night if you are a dog! Please! That's not what you deserve. Let's all stop being hypocrites, cause if you were honest, you probably do deserve a hardcore porn actress, who probably has some unnameable diseases as well. Stop being a kid, and grow up. That's so funny but true. I hate when guys ((wayward) guys say they wanna marry a virgin). Mscheww.Ope Adebayohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762355897298829340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8134906832480181892.post-38743261440412738132011-08-31T06:47:51.662-05:002011-08-31T06:47:51.662-05:00Ok oooo, thanks for referencing my blog. You did w...Ok oooo, thanks for referencing my blog. You did well in dissecting the issue<br /><br />As for me, I expect my husband to appreciate the fact that I kept myself for him and God cos it is not an easy thing to do. I don't agree that it is just a responsibility issue only at all<br />People think differently. Even though you won't really thank your wife for keeping herself, I know many men that would, I am not talking of those men that have spent their past sleeping around o and now want someone 'pure' in their own eyes@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.com